College BluesWell it´s that time of year again when the kids are back in school and the older teens are trying to decide what to do with their 1. vida. Several of the jovenes de la iglesia are starting new jobs or starting college. I must say I never realized how difícil it is for them to study exactamente what they want here—and it has nothing to do with dinero. First, they have to know before they start what their 2. especialización is going to be because most 3. universidades only offer a few majors at most. Then they have to take a test to see if they qualify to attend that university. But oftentimes they are competing for just a few open slots out of several hundreds of applicants. Toño, José Luis´brother, had his heart set on a Universidad en Puebla, but he did not pass the 4. examen. So he has begun studying in Tuxtla instead.
But a few of the others have not been so lucky. At least dos of the muchachas want to be teachers, but they were not able to pass an exam after two or three tries. These tests are not like the SAT or ACT in that a passing score is generally 5. suficiente; there were only about 30 slots available for over 200 teens who wanted in. The girls are both very 6. inteligente, I know, but just had slim chances of passing. So they have put off studying another year and are trying to figure out what else they can do. But there really aren´t very many jobs geared towards women here (which is why I think almost every girl at church is studying to be a teacher, nothing else). Since Mexico is still so far behind the United States, the most prominent 7. trabajos are male-dominated ones we tend to overlook, like welding, pouring concrete, or painting carros. I feel really bad for the two girls who still can´t go to college and wish there was more I could do to encourage them. José Luis did give one clase de jovenes about what is truly involved in being successful, and I think most of them really appreciated it.
Daniel´s Story (La Historia de Daniel)
A few weeks ago José Luis and I invited all of the jovenes to visit one of the elderly men of the congregation, Daniel. We had planned on visiting with Daniel for about an hour and going to a coffee shop in the centro together afterwards. A whopping one teen showed up. Sometimes I wonder how many años it will take for the teens here to have the same 8. unidad and love for the 9. Señor as teens from big youth groups like in Mt. Juliet. José Luis and I work so hard to plan actividades they will enjoy and go out of our way to invite each of them, and yet they still take so many wonderful oportunidades for granted. But we have learned not to let it get to us and to ¨try, try again.¨ I think it really helps that we are in it together; that way even if no one else shows up, we can still do something just the two of us. Before José Luis seemed to get discouraged a lot easier. So maybe encouraging him to keep working hard is one of the many 10. maneras I have found to be useful here.
Daniel´s Story (La Historia de Daniel)
A few weeks ago José Luis and I invited all of the jovenes to visit one of the elderly men of the congregation, Daniel. We had planned on visiting with Daniel for about an hour and going to a coffee shop in the centro together afterwards. A whopping one teen showed up. Sometimes I wonder how many años it will take for the teens here to have the same 8. unidad and love for the 9. Señor as teens from big youth groups like in Mt. Juliet. José Luis and I work so hard to plan actividades they will enjoy and go out of our way to invite each of them, and yet they still take so many wonderful oportunidades for granted. But we have learned not to let it get to us and to ¨try, try again.¨ I think it really helps that we are in it together; that way even if no one else shows up, we can still do something just the two of us. Before José Luis seemed to get discouraged a lot easier. So maybe encouraging him to keep working hard is one of the many 10. maneras I have found to be useful here.
Anyway, we had a good visita with Daniel, and even with only three of us, I know that we were able to build him up a lot. Daniel is about 70 years old, and for the past few meses he has been battling several health problemas. Before his health started to go awry, he attended several of the classes at the preaching school and preached for the congregation occasionally. Like many elderly folks, he had some very 11. interesante historias that he was more than eager to share with us. First, he went to school on the first day of kindergarten and never went back because he didn´t like it. Instead, he devoted himself to milking cows at a nearby 12. rancho, never learning to read or write. He worked hard every year after, and also kept 10-15 13. novias at one time. As a young adult, he lived and worked in Detroit one year. I have mentioned before what a small mundo it is when I find cristianos aquí with connections to people back home, and Daniel was actually living in Detroit at the same time as mis padres. Upon returning from Detroit, he married one of his many novias. They moved to ¨the city¨ (San Cristobal) and started a small convenience store together. Since there weren´t very many convenience stores at the time, their profits eventually allowed them to contract four taxis and build a casa large enough for the whole familia. Daniel also started his own coffee business. He and his esposa and hija became Christians a few years ago after one of his vecinos invited him to la iglesia.
Daniel seemed very pleased to share his experiencias with us, but afterwards his mood quickly changed. It turns out he doesn´t feel comfortable preaching because he still has a hard time reading. And he said various times that he is ¨ready to go and be with his wife¨ (who died a few years ago). But despite his eagerness to go to 14. el cielo, he also told us that he doesn´t have any faith. Apparently he believes that God should have listened to him and healed him of his enfermedades a long time ago. For alguien who attends every worship service and leads 10 minute prayers, it certainly struck us as odd. But it just goes to show that there are many seemingly devoted hermanos fighting battles that we might not ever realize. Daniel´s ¨lack of faith¨ has already deceived him so much that he has started to confuse 15. las ciencias with 16. cristianidad. He wanted to know why, if there is a God, he allows it to rain for days on end in lugares like San Cristobal, but in other places of the world it´s completely dry and no one can grow anything? Why, if there is a God, do scientists say they have proof there were living beings 17. milliones of years before the Biblia was written? Naturally we spent the second part of our visita mitigating his doubts, reminding him of other great men of the Biblia who had great faith in tough times, and helping him to realize what some of his many 18. talentos are.
Babes in Christ (Bebes en Cristo)
Lately I have come to realize that there are many men in the congregation like Daniel: men who are still babes in Christ, trying so hard to understand the Bible while at the same time clinging to their Catholic roots. It never fails that anytime an Americano comes to give a clase, one of the men takes advantage of their presence to ask picky doctrinal preguntas. When Glen was here, one of our preaching students asked what he thought about listening to music. The student believes that it is sinful to listen to any kind of 19. musica at anytime (but really did not know of any versos from the Bible to support his belief other than Amos 5:23). With Kerry, someone asked if there are still people in the world today who can perform miracles, like the apostles did in the book of Acts. Another man, who was losing his eyesight, actually went to visit another religious grupo to see if they could heal him!
Of course David has preached on these 20. topicos. So José Luis and I really can´t understand why these men who have been Christians over a year now still don´t understand such basics 21. principios and don´t talk to David when they do have questions. But I have to remind myself that many of them have little educación; they rarely study their Bibles; and very few of them come to church 22. consistemente. These kinds of doubts and questions also make me aware more then ever, like Dorothy in the Wizard of Oz, that ¨I´m not in Tennessee anymore!¨ I have told José Luis varias veces that we Americans have a different style of teaching simply because most grew up in the church and are much more mature spiritually. The congregation here may be one of the biggest in Chiapas, with over 100 members, but 23. ciertamente it is still young and in desperate need of guidance and support.
Marisol
I am also convinced more than ever now that, because of simplistic doubts like these, of how crucial it is to continue studying with new 24. conviertos. It´s una razon I continue studying with Marisol, even though she´s been baptized over a year now. In our past few studies we have been studying 25. oración. I told her that I am getting married (she didn´t know yet because she was away all verano), and out of the blue she responded, ¨I never married. I am still living in unión libre (free union) with Abel.¨ She said it like it was nothing. I, on the other hand, had no idea she never married because she has always referred to Abel as ¨mi esposo¨ (my husband). And the poorest of Mexicans don´t like to spend money on engagement or wedding 26. anillos, so it´s not like I could know if she was actually married or not just by looking at her finger.
Marisol
I am also convinced more than ever now that, because of simplistic doubts like these, of how crucial it is to continue studying with new 24. conviertos. It´s una razon I continue studying with Marisol, even though she´s been baptized over a year now. In our past few studies we have been studying 25. oración. I told her that I am getting married (she didn´t know yet because she was away all verano), and out of the blue she responded, ¨I never married. I am still living in unión libre (free union) with Abel.¨ She said it like it was nothing. I, on the other hand, had no idea she never married because she has always referred to Abel as ¨mi esposo¨ (my husband). And the poorest of Mexicans don´t like to spend money on engagement or wedding 26. anillos, so it´s not like I could know if she was actually married or not just by looking at her finger.
Naturally she put me in a difficult posición. I want so badly to encourage her and help her grow spiritually, but at the same time I feel somewhat 27. responsable to teach her about God´s views of marriage since I am the one studying with her. But José Luis and I talked about it, and we agreed that I won´t say anything. She has already been discouraged lately and coming to church a lot less, so if we tell her she has to officially get married (to her non-Christian ¨boyfriend¨, no less) we would risk that she stops coming altogether. On the other hand, hopefully she will be able to continue coming to church and studying until she knows enough to make the decision to get married on her own. If anyone else has any other suggestions of how to handle the situation, please let me know.
Good Works (Buenas Obras)
Even though many of the members are having a hard time 28. espiritualmente, I really feel like the congregation as a whole is working hard and moving in the right direction. Who knows how long it will be before we have 29. ancianos, clases for all edades, or several different kinds of 30. ministerios, but at least we do more than most of the other congregations in Chiapas. Speaking of ministries, José Luis talked a few Sundays ago about some of the different kinds of works we can be involved in. I was able to give him lots of ideas of things that have worked for us in the U.S. that most congregations here haven´t considered yet. I also showed him part of the SOS booklet from Mt. Juliet´s website, and he was amazed by all the different areas. For those of you who don´t know, the ¨SOS Booklet¨ is something every member fills out to indicate what kind of actividades he/she would like to help with—some of them as simple as placing attendance cards in the pews, others as complicated as teaching at the local jail. The book is literally about 30 pages long!
Vacation Bible School? (¿Escuela Biblica de Vacaciones?)
This past verano some of the ladies decided to teach daytime kids´ classes. (Actually, I think they decided it just one or two days before they started it—one of the many things that still bothers me about this cultura.) A few of them worked together to teach the niños Monday through Saturday from 10a.m.-1p.m. cada día. I was not able to go because I was busy with one of the American maestros, but from what I heard it went well, with more 31. visitantes arriving most days than regular miembros. So you could say that it was their first VBS. No more than 40 niños came each day, which may seem like nothing compared to our high 32. numeros. But with such a lack of planning, I think that´s pretty good. As long as we are consistent, I´m sure that our ¨VBS¨ will only grow and get better each year.
Problems in Teopisca (Problemas en Teopisca)
Also, as I mentioned in the last blog, more of the men have been getting involved in preaching and teaching. Before they were preaching just to ¨fill in,¨ but now they are having to preach more out of 33. necesidad. For one reason, they are having to take turns preaching in the Iglesia de Cristo de Teopisca—about 30 minutes away. A few weeks ago David attended the Sunday morning worship services at this church to try and resolve some problemas they´ve been having recently. Supposedly some Texans came a few years ago teaching that they should practice ¨one cup¨communion. As I told David, I find it highly ironico that Americans with such bizarre ideas went evangelizar in a little known place like Teopisca when I don´t even know of any churches in the United States that are ¨one cup.¨ But Teopisca is a very poor comunidad where la gente has little to no educación (like muchas in Chiapas). We have a feeling those American 34. evangelistas purposefully seek out places where the people are more 35. ignorante because no one else will listen to them. Actually, David told me that the same men came to San Cristobal and offered him dinero if he accepted their 36. doctrina, but of course he refused. So the Christians in Teopisca adopted the one cup doctrine, and lately they have had some other extreme ideas, as well; for example, they believe that women are never to wear earrings. I don´t know all the 37. detalles, but I think their 38. predicador has a lot to do with it. Fortunately David managed to persuade the majority of members that those ideas had no ground. Those he didn´t persuade, including the preacher, basically split off and have begun meeting in a separate local. But the group that agreed with David is mostly mujeres, so of course they are without a preacher now.
A New Congregation (Una Nueva Congregación)
Good Works (Buenas Obras)
Even though many of the members are having a hard time 28. espiritualmente, I really feel like the congregation as a whole is working hard and moving in the right direction. Who knows how long it will be before we have 29. ancianos, clases for all edades, or several different kinds of 30. ministerios, but at least we do more than most of the other congregations in Chiapas. Speaking of ministries, José Luis talked a few Sundays ago about some of the different kinds of works we can be involved in. I was able to give him lots of ideas of things that have worked for us in the U.S. that most congregations here haven´t considered yet. I also showed him part of the SOS booklet from Mt. Juliet´s website, and he was amazed by all the different areas. For those of you who don´t know, the ¨SOS Booklet¨ is something every member fills out to indicate what kind of actividades he/she would like to help with—some of them as simple as placing attendance cards in the pews, others as complicated as teaching at the local jail. The book is literally about 30 pages long!
Vacation Bible School? (¿Escuela Biblica de Vacaciones?)
This past verano some of the ladies decided to teach daytime kids´ classes. (Actually, I think they decided it just one or two days before they started it—one of the many things that still bothers me about this cultura.) A few of them worked together to teach the niños Monday through Saturday from 10a.m.-1p.m. cada día. I was not able to go because I was busy with one of the American maestros, but from what I heard it went well, with more 31. visitantes arriving most days than regular miembros. So you could say that it was their first VBS. No more than 40 niños came each day, which may seem like nothing compared to our high 32. numeros. But with such a lack of planning, I think that´s pretty good. As long as we are consistent, I´m sure that our ¨VBS¨ will only grow and get better each year.
Problems in Teopisca (Problemas en Teopisca)
Also, as I mentioned in the last blog, more of the men have been getting involved in preaching and teaching. Before they were preaching just to ¨fill in,¨ but now they are having to preach more out of 33. necesidad. For one reason, they are having to take turns preaching in the Iglesia de Cristo de Teopisca—about 30 minutes away. A few weeks ago David attended the Sunday morning worship services at this church to try and resolve some problemas they´ve been having recently. Supposedly some Texans came a few years ago teaching that they should practice ¨one cup¨communion. As I told David, I find it highly ironico that Americans with such bizarre ideas went evangelizar in a little known place like Teopisca when I don´t even know of any churches in the United States that are ¨one cup.¨ But Teopisca is a very poor comunidad where la gente has little to no educación (like muchas in Chiapas). We have a feeling those American 34. evangelistas purposefully seek out places where the people are more 35. ignorante because no one else will listen to them. Actually, David told me that the same men came to San Cristobal and offered him dinero if he accepted their 36. doctrina, but of course he refused. So the Christians in Teopisca adopted the one cup doctrine, and lately they have had some other extreme ideas, as well; for example, they believe that women are never to wear earrings. I don´t know all the 37. detalles, but I think their 38. predicador has a lot to do with it. Fortunately David managed to persuade the majority of members that those ideas had no ground. Those he didn´t persuade, including the preacher, basically split off and have begun meeting in a separate local. But the group that agreed with David is mostly mujeres, so of course they are without a preacher now.
A New Congregation (Una Nueva Congregación)
Also we are in the process of establishing a new iglesia in the pueblo of Pujitic—about two hours away. A brother of one of our ladies lives there, and David began studying with him one or two months ago. Last week we had the 39. privilegio of travelling together to Pujitic and witnessing the man (Antonino) and his esposa get baptized. There are several other religious groups in Pujitic, but no Church of Christ. Actually, Antonino and his wife already know a lot about the Bible (compared to other members) because they were previously Jehovah´s Witnesses. So they are the start of a new congregation in that area. They will travel to San Cristobal for our culto every two Sundays; and on the alternating Sundays, David or one of the other men will conduct the worship services in their home. In the meantime, we will continue taking groups on los sabados to evangelize in Pujitic and surrounding areas.
We took advantage of our trip to the river to go swimming!
All of us who went to PujiticI also witnessed a bautismo in Larrainzer a few weeks ago. I had gone to see how everything is going with the preaching school there. (You may remember that those students recently started meeting in their own church building instead of coming to San Cristobal each week.) But in place of classes that day, the students, several others from the congregation and I drove to the nearby 4o. rio to watch an older lady be baptized.
By the way, I really enjoyed watching the 41. Olimpicos this time. There´s just something about being in another país that makes you feel even prouder of your own. I´ve never paid much atención to the medals count before, but this time every time an American won algo I would want to get up and cheer. The Mexians can´t understand how we can win so many 42. medallas and almost feel jealous of our 43. atletas! At the same tiempo, however, they consider a 44. victoria for us a victory for them, simply because we are the closest country to them.
Public busses decorated for ¨Día de Choferes¨ (Driver´s Day), when all the bus and taxi drivers go together to el cerrillo de San Cristobal (the San Cristobal hill) to receive a blessing from the ¨santo de motoristas¨ (saint of motorists). They believe that the saint will help them drive well and protect them from accidents. Supposedly it is strictly a San Cristobal tradición because no other ciudad has the santo de motoristas.
Well I think I have said enough for one blog ; ) As always, I am open to your suggestions and 45. comentarios. Elizabeth
P.S. I still need support money, if anyone can help me out, whether it be a one time donation or monthly. So far I have only received little more than 1/4 of what I need for my second year here.
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José Luis and I have a new sobrina (niece)!